Monday, October 13, 2008

week 23


Today marks 23 weeks of waiting.

17 comments:

Sparkz said...

I hope yours comes today!!! Its time, thats for sure! That would be great. I got an email today that said our timeline is 4-6months now and that I should be alarmed if my wait happens to go past the five month mark! Ha. Wed. makes 5 so not a big shock but kind of annoying!

Sparkz said...

Painting the pumpkins is a GREAT idea! they last so much longer that way too! :)

Sparkz said...

This is the exact email: We have noticed that many of our families are now waiting closer to the timeline of 4-6 months on average in receiving their child referral. This is due to the amount of time it takes to make a match and gather the information for each child. With that in mind, I don’t want you to be alarmed if your wait happens to go past the five month mark. Please be reassured that our in-country team is working as quickly as they can and that you are not forgotten!

It does stink. I think they should say up to 7 months but have finances ready just incase it happens sooner. Then you woudln't excpect sooner and it wouldn't be as bad when it comes later. Just my opinion though! I agree w/you on Christmas- we were wanting to at least travel around the holidays and be w/our baby during that time!

I just kind of wonder if I hadn't e-mailed if anything would have been said about the longer wait. I figured it out of course but an update is always nice...

Sparkz said...

I thought that too when I read it. Talk about depressing! I think yours will come soon. You're so close to 6 months. I would LOVE it if it came today. I love seeing other people get their referrals and I hope your next!

Elisabeth said...

Have you gotten that email as well? (I have not but I am way behind you in waiting) It is somewhat comforting in that at least it is in black and white and it alleviates some of the wondering. You are in the homestretch. Marathoners hit the wall around this point, women in childbirth say they can't do it anymore. It is the thing of which a gazillions idioms come - one that comes to mind is "it is always darkest before the dawn". None of this makes it any easier but so many of us are pulling for you. I don't know how many non FBI families there are who went on waitlist around the same time as you but you are right up there on the FBI - 3 referrals that we know of last week. It is coming.

Hugs to you!!

Natalie Fournet said...

I can't wait for God's plan to be revealed and for you to see your child's face. Praying it will be soon!

Meredith said...

Girllllllll. 23. I am proud of you! Hoping 23 is the week!

Jocelyn said...

Give me a 23....and hopefully not a 24:-) Thinking of you during the "w" word!

Sam said...

Kind of a fitting picture of the number 23...i am sure it matches your mood. hope that it comes soon soon soon!

Monica said...

Huge hugs to you....it will come soon now...it has to!

Sparkz said...

By the way I tag you! My computer is not working well (as usual so I'll post it from work).

Elisabeth said...

I reread my post and I am sure it didn't help at all -:o( - (my intentions were good)

I am sooooo hoping it is this week for you

Sparkz said...

Thinking about you today!

~*Lisa*~ said...

Aw sister I hate this wait for you, but I know his timing is greater than ours and that sweet little face is going to be revealed to you soon. Just know your family is praying for you right along side of all your wonderful adoption friends. We love you!

Around the World said...

praying with you....hoping that referral comes really soon!!!!!

Sarah Tucker said...

So fun to read your blog! We are officially waiting, it seems so far away! loved reading the fun facts about you! I am the same way about flying! yikes!!

MK said...

23 ended up being a good number for you too!!!!